EFFECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE - EPISODE 1

 To start with, do you know that the people you walk with at times determine your behaviour or disposition because their own attitude tends to affect the way you behave

Let me use myself as an example, there was a time I post anything that comes my way on my status, once it is appeasing to Me, I post without looking at what importance it would be to me or to anyone that sees it but later, when I started have some certain friends that I know that they are good morally and physically and I had them on my contacts, you know what? Before I post any status, I would be like "what would they think of me if I post this kind of thing" or "what will this video or picture portray me as" so from there, I started controlling the kind of content I post and mind you, it wasn't because I was trying to deceive them or something but I just felt within me that some of those things I post are not something I am supposed to be posting and I've always known this even before I got to know those friends but then, I kept posting them then because I felt that the people that will see it are my friends that will also like and embrace it and wouldn't think of me in a negative way and I even felt that I was still better than them because some of them post something worse but when I got to know this "new friends of mine", no one told me before I changed my ways and stopped posting irrelevant things.

But why do you think my "new friends" had such impact on me? Well, I guess it was because of their character and behaviour, their behaviour naturally had impact on me even without their knowledge and moreover, I felt that if I didn't change some of my attitudes, I may fall below their standard which I wouldn't want to happen so I did my adjustments on my own without anyone telling me. 

To be continued......anticipate my next episode.


Comments

  1. PaulMay 24, 2023 at 4:25 AM

    100 percent right, I had such an experience in life as well, the company of people you keep at times define who you are and how far you go in life.💙

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